Tracey Collins

When Eric Adams won the mayoral election in 2021, there was one person who was notably absent from his victory party—his longtime partner Tracey Collins, whom he has described as his “other half.”

Maybe opposites do attract—Collins avoids the public eye, so much so that some of Adams’s friends and acquaintances haven’t met her. (“We do everything together,” Adams wrote of Collins, in his 2020 book “Healthy at Last.”) “I’ve never seen her,” a PR exec who “socializes” with Adams told Politico. “I was really surprised to see her there with him,” an unnamed Adams friend told the New York Post when Collins attended the Met Gala with Adams in May of 2022 in a rare public sighting. They continued, “Nobody knows her. She wasn’t there on primary day, she wasn’t there on election day, she wasn’t there the day he got the Brooklyn borough presidency.” (She did, however, attend his swearing-in ceremony.)

For long stretches of time, Adams doesn’t appear to see her, either. While on the campaign trail in 2021, he stated that he had only seen her once in a two-month period, although that might have been to deflect attention away from the persistent question of just where exactly he lived—in Fort Lee, New Jersey, in the co-op he bought with Collins in 2016, or at his Bed-Stuy townhome, or somewhere else in Brooklyn entirely? Adams, for his part, denied cohabitating with Collins in Fort Lee. “How foolish would someone have to be to run to be the mayor of the city of New York and live in another municipality?” Adams said. (Indeed!) “I never hid that I own a co-op in New Jersey with Tracey, but my permanent residence is in Brooklyn,” he added. (If he didn’t live there, however, he certainly was there often, regularly popping into virtual events from that Jersey apartment. E-ZPass documents he shared gave an incomplete record of his travels (sometimes he took the bus) but Politico noted that he “took City cars over the George Washington Bridge or through the Lincoln Tunnel on six separate weekends in July, August, September and October of [2020], as well as once in February [2021].”) 

As one veteran City Hall reporter told Hell Gate, “I don’t think anybody understands Eric and Tracey to be in a—it’s like, what’s the word I’m looking for—in a stereotypical monogamous relationship.” (In an interview with HOT97 earlier this year, the mayor said he was “single” but “in a real relationship.”)

The air of mystery extends to the early days of their relationship as well. Adams has refused to say when the two became an item, though by the time Adams became a state senator in 2006, they were fairly enmeshed in each other’s lives, at least professionally—Collins, who during that time period was an elementary school principal as well as the founder of the nonprofit Fully Persuaded for Children and Families, was chair of Adams’s Educational Task Force. Even then, Collins allegedly flew a bit under the radar. (As the Post wrote in 2021, “even a fellow lawmaker who was close to Adams during his years in the state Senate…had no recollection of Collins.”)

By 2008, the two were chummy enough that when Collins self-published “Sweet Promptings,” a self-help book meant to help people cultivate “sweetness, kindness, and compassion,”  Adams wrote the introduction. “We commend Tracey Collins for encouraging us to become the best of who we are while investing in the wellbeing of others,” he wrote. And in 2009, Collins returned the favor, writing the foreword for Adams’s own self-published book “Don’t Let It Happen,” a parenting manual which Adams described as a “life saving resource designed to assist parents in detecting when their children may be involved in potentially harmful activities.” In her foreword, Collins wrote, “In the pages to follow, Eric does a wonderful job of sharing the knowledge and experience he gained from a 22 year career in law enforcement.” (Along with extremely detailed descriptions of a variety of illegal drugs, Adams’s guide helpfully tells parents that one way to know their child is in a gang is if they’re “letting everyone know they are in a gang” and if they are “displaying a defiant attitude towards authority figures,” among other warning signs.)

In her nonprofit role and as the head of his taskforce, Collins pushed Adams to propose anti-bullying legislation and embrace “social-emotional learning,” but it was a campaign they both spearheaded in 2010 to “end” the scourge of “the Sagging Pants Culture” afflicting the city’s youth where the two made the biggest media splash. 

“This sagging pants culture represents an immature disregard for the basic civility, courtesy, and responsibility that our young men should display,” then-State Senator Adams wrote in a press release, before issuing an exhortation to young men who loved to wear sagging pants: “Have pride in your appearance: if you raise your pants, you’ll also raise your image.”

Fully Persuaded for Children and Families never reported more than $50,000 in annual revenue to the IRS and dissolved in 2015. Notably, in 2012, the group gave the disgraced gubernatorial aide David Johnson a bit of an image rehabilitation boost, graciously allowing Johnson to counsel “at-risk” youth after Johnson allegedly assaulted his girlfriend. (Johnson took a plea deal and avoided prison time.)

Collins’s name came up in a different capacity in 2013. After Adams took a trip to South Korea in 2011 with his fellow state senator, John Sampson, the lawmakers faced calls to reveal who paid for the journeys. One 2013 article noted that Collins—”a Brooklyn woman who does not work for the Senate”—was apparently “reimbursed $1,400 by the Adams campaign for buying his ticket.” (This was a period of epic corruption in Albany. Sampson, who admitted to embezzling around $440,000 from foreclosed homes when he was a court appointed referee, was also convicted of felonies for impeding federal investigations, kicked out of the State Senate, and served almost five years in prison.)

Today, Collins reportedly has no desire to be the unofficial First Lady of New York City. But hey, we get it. She’s already given more than 20 years of her life to the young people of the city, first as a teacher and school principal, and more recently as a DOE administrator. In July 2022, Collins even got a promotion and a more than 20 percent pay raise at the DOE, going from the “senior youth development director” to the “senior adviser to the deputy chancellor of school leadership,” a role that did not exist before David Banks, himself Adams’s good friend, was appointed DOE chancellor by the mayor. 

The appearance of nepotism did not sit well with many observers, best encapsulated in the New York Post headline, “NYC Schools Chancellor David Banks, Eric Adams put each other’s girlfriends in top posts.” In response to that Post story, Fabien Levy, Adams’s then-press secretary and current deputy mayor for communications, said it was an example of “sexist rhetoric.” Collins, Levy wrote, “applied for the publicly posted, competitive position and went through a rigorous process that did not include City Hall’s oversight. DOE has made clear that she was, far and away, the most qualified of all applicants for the position, which is why she was the only finalist presented to Chancellor Banks. Once again, it is flat out sexist and vile to suggest an accomplished, highly trained, lifelong public servant was only given this position because of who her long-time partner may be.” He added, “The New York Post owes both women an immediate apology.” We reached out to both the DOE and City Hall for comment, but have yet to hear back.

The mayor, for his part, had this to say: “Tracey’s been a principal. She’s been an administrator, and she’s an excellent educator. She turned around schools. Should she leave the DOE because her boo became mayor? I don’t think so!”

Collins was later promoted to the role of senior adviser to deputy chancellor of family and community engagement—but ethics complaints filed to multiple City agencies by a former DOE colleague raise some questions about what exactly she does at her job.

In September 2024, the New York Post reported that Collins’s erstwhile coworker reached out to the DOE ethics officer, the Conflicts of Interest Board, and the Department of Investigation, claiming that Collins “rarely appeared in the office since November 2023.” Chalkbeat later went over Collins’s calendar with a fine-toothed comb and found that “the schedule left about 75 percent of her days empty and gave little sense of her role or a coherent set of responsibilities.” According to the calendar obtained by Chalkbeat,, she did take several meetings related to school food, a noted passion of her longtime partner.

Adams defended Collins at a press conference in October 2024, repeating that she had a long career in education before she was promoted to her current position, that she “does her job and does it well,” and that “being the significant other of the mayor should not stop your track.”

Collins’s former coworker also asked City investigators to look into whether “she put in for vacation while she took all of those illegal trips.” The latter complaint is a reference to the activities alleged in the indictment against Mayor Adams, which identifies Collins as “Adams’s Partner” and details international trips the two took—allegedly with steep discounts from Turkish Airlines—to India, Hungary, Turkey, Jordan, Oman, and Ghana.

Still, the couple didn’t get to check everything off of their travel wishlist. Per the indictment: “When Adams’s Partner later inquired about planning a trip to Easter Island, Chile, Adams repeatedly asked her whether the Turkish Airline could be used for their flights, requiring her to call the Turkish Airline to confirm that they did not have routes between New York and Chile.”

Still hungry?

• Check out “Sweet Promptings,” Collins’s 2008 book of inspirational sayings.
• NYC Schools Chancellor David Banks, Eric Adams put each other’s girlfriends in top posts | New York Post
• Eric Adams’ girlfriend joined on $45K worth of luxe trips, accused of having ‘no-show’ DOE job | New York Post
• What does Eric Adams’ partner do for NYC’s schools? Tracey Collins’ calendar gives few answers. | Chalkbeat